Forks in the Road and Braids in the Paths

Alana Natalie Flora
3 min readMar 20, 2024

The path at first is worn by our mothers and fathers,

Picking us up and taking us along.

We learn to crawl, walk, then run

Our little feet growing, our shoes changing with age and the seasons.

A grippy sock spun around our one foot, the other fallen off, missing and lost

Rain boots on the wrong feet, covered in mud and loose grass,

Socks and slippers, then velcro, then laces,

We run, skip, jump, and trip

Our footsteps tracing erratic paths to the playground, to our mothers,

To our snacks and our naps.

The terrain changes with age

Into our boots, flip flops, birkenstocks, and crocs,

Our footsteps take us through the halls of our schools,

Into the gymnasiums of our childhoods

Across stages and out into the fresh air of graduation,

Where we each begin the path of our own.

We purchase professional shoes

For professional steps

Hiking boots

For weekend play

Our footsteps dip in and out of coffee shops,

We go to jobs, to apartments, to the bananas, eggs, and milk.

On cement or in snow

We come and we go

As we wear paths of our own.

Our footsteps race with impulsivity

And hesitate with fresh choices

We get tripped by old decisions about to expire.

We step over obstacles

Or misstep into trouble

Often finding ourselves

In front of the fridge

In the silent pursuit of something else, something new.

We climb mountains

Run races

Lift weight at our gyms

We deliver speeches

Join gatherings

Read the news

We cross borders

Enter bedrooms

Race to the hospital

We go to our mats to go within

We go to our knees to go above.

We can be proud of our journey

And ashamed about what we have to show for it.

We are human.

We are being.

If our steps could be seen in

How we raced time, each other, and ourselves as the pace picked up

Or when danced together at weddings, and alone in our kitchens

Or stood beside and stood still, in support.

If we could see the steps we took walking away

Or of their steps walking away from us.

If we could bear witness to the footprints that stay in sync with our own

Ours growing, theirs slowing,

Often freckled with the dots of a cane, or flanked by wheels of a walker.

The forks in our roads

And braids in our paths

A telling of choices made

Of experiences both not had and had.

There is beauty

In each step

Each decision,

Purposeful or not,

Like the strokes from a paint brush we are creating

A work of collective art.

The braided paths and the pace

Are covered in grace

May we smile at, chase down, and embrace

All the forks in the road

Of this human race.

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